Konstruksi Sosial Remaja Desa Senganten Tentang Gaya Pacaran Sehat

Social Construction of Senganten Village Adolescents Regarding Healthy Dating Styles

ABSTRAK

            Masa iremaja iialah iMasa iperalihan idari imasa ikanak-kanak imenuju idewasa idisebut imasa iremaja i(Widyaasturi, i2009). iPacaran iadalah icara imengenal iseseorang isebagai ipasangan iuntuk imengenal isatu isama ilain isecara ilebih iintens isehingga isuatu isaat imereka idapat imembuat ikeputusan iyang idisengaja itentang ihubungan itersebut. iPacaran iyang ibaik iatau ipacaran iyang isehat iyaitu ipacaran iyang isehat isecara ifisik, imental idan isosial. iDi iDesa iSenganten iKecamatan iGondang iKabupaten iBojonegoro, igaya ipacaran ianak iremaja idi iDesa iSenganten iini ibanyak iyang ikelewat ibatas isudah isama iseperti ipasangan isuami iistri iwalaupun ibelum iada iikatan imenikah, idan ibanyaknya iremaja idi iDesa iSenganten iyang imemilih iuntuk imenikah idi iusia idini ikaran ifaktor itersebut.

Dasar ipenelitian iini imenggunakan ipendekatan ikualitatif idikarenakan ipermasalahan igaya ipacaran iremaja idesa iyang ihanya idapat idijawab imenggunakan ipenelitian ikualitatif. iTeknik ipengumpulan idata imenggunakan iinstrument iberupa i: iwawancara idan idokumentasi iselanjutnya idianalisis isecara ideskriptif ikualitatif. iHasil ipenelitian iini ikondisi isosial iremaja idi iDesa iSenganten i iKecamatan iGondang iKabupaten iBojonegoro itelah imengalami iperubahan iyang isignifikan iterkait ipola ihidup iremaja. iMisalnya idalam i ipola ibermain iremaja iyang isebelumnya imasih imemanfaatkan ialat ibermain itradisional idan imengandalkan ikreatifitas iremaja idan ipola ibermain iyang imengandalkan ifisik iremaja isekarang itergantikan idengan ialat ibermain iyang imodern idan icenderung ibersifat iindividual iterutama ipenggunaan ihandphone ipada iremaja iyang isemakin itinggi, ihal iini imenyebabkan isikap iremaja imenjadi ilebih icenderung imenyendiri idan ikurang ibersosialisai idengan ilingkungan, ihal iini ijuga imenyebabkan ipara iremaja ilebih inyaman idengan idunia imaya idibandingkan idengan ibersosialisai idengan iteman isebayanya.

Berdasarkan ihasil ipenelitian imengenai ikontruksi isosial iremaja iDesa iSenganten itentang igaya ipacaran isehat, ipada idasarnya isaat iremaja imerupakan ihal iyang itidak ibaik ikarena iberdasarkan iusia idan iaspek ipsikologis iseorang iremaja ibelum isiap, itetapi iapabila ihanya iuntuk imengenal isatu-sama ilain idan idalam ibatas isewajarnya ihal itersebut itidak iapa-apa idilakukan iterutama iuntuk imeningkatkan iprestasi ibelajar imereka i isendiri iakan itetapi iperan iorang itua isangat ipenting iagar imereka itidak iterjerumus idalam iperilaku iperilaku itidak ibaik iyang imenimbulkan ihal iyang iberdampak iburuk ibagi imasa idepan imereka.

            Kata ikunci i: iKonstruksi iSosial iRemaja iDesa iTentang iGaya iPacaran iSehat.

ABSTRACT

Adolescence is the transition period from childhood to adulthood, called adolescence (Widyaasturi, 2009). Dating is a way of getting to know someone as a partner and getting to know each other more intensely so that one day they can make an intentional decision about the relationship. A good relationship or a healthy relationship is a relationship that is healthy physically, mentally and socially. iIn iSenganten Village iGondang District iBojonegoro Regency, the dating style of young people in iSenganten Village, there are many people who have gone too far, like husband and wife couples, even though they have not yet married, and there are many teenagers in iSenganten Village who have chosen to get married at this age. the actor.

The basis of this research uses a qualitative approach because the problem of dating styles of young people can only be answered using qualitative research. Data collection techniques use instruments in the form of: interviews and documentation and then analyzed descriptively and qualitatively. iThe results of this research are social conditions of adolescents in iSenganten Village i iGondang District iBojonegoro Regency have experienced significant changes related to adolescent living patterns. For example, in the playing patterns of teenagers who previously still used traditional playing tools and relied on the creativity of teenagers, and the playing patterns which relied on the physics of teenagers are now being replaced by modern gaming tools which tend to be more individual, especially the use of mobile phones among teenagers which is increasingly high, this causes problems. hood iteen ibecome In addition to tending to be alone and socializing less with the environment, this also causes teenage brothers to be more uncomfortable with the virtual world than with socializing with their peers.

Based on the results of research regarding the social construction of adolescents in the village of Senganten regarding healthy dating styles, basically adolescence is something that is not good because based on age and psychological aspects, a teenager is not yet ready, but if it is only for getting to know each other and within normal limits this is not Anything that is done is mainly to improve their own learning performance, but the person's role is very important so that they do not fall into bad behavior that causes things that have a bad impact on their future.